Alejandro Jodorowsky
\nHe says that a \u2018healthy tree\u2019 is one that produces sweet, nutritious fruit, even if its outward appearance is that of a \u2018twisted\u2019 tree…
\nA \u2018majestic tree\u2019 that produces \u2018toxic\u2019 fruit is a sick tree…
\nTo heal is to betray the original intention of our family tree…
\nTo say no is to break the tree’s neurotic maintenance contract…
\n\u2018The healing of the family tree consists in removing the repetition, understanding it or repeating it in a positive form\u2019…
\nWhat is family?
\nFamily is permanence, it was there before we arrived… We belong to it for as long as we live and will continue to exist after us…
\nIt’s a generation of living people, walking at least two generations of dead people on their backs to the finish line, where it’s up to them to ride on the backs of the next generation of living people…
\nAm I my family?<\/p>\n
Let’s remember that from the point of view of \u2018metagenealogy\u2019, each of us is inhabited by the \u2018three generations that precedes us, which makes at least 14 people\u2019…
\nFrom this point of view, we believe that secrets kept in one generation are an unhealthy source of trauma and conflict for those who come after…
\nIs there a link between illness and family secrets?
\nThe relationship between illness and family secrets becomes fairly obvious when you study family trees…
\nThe family is like a psychological jar filled with :
\nSecrets
\nTaboos
\nSilence
\nShame…
\nInsanity, theft, infidelity, prison, incest, abuse…
\nIn this way, illness is not the solution to the problem, but an invitation to face up to a family conflict that has remained secret…
\nFran\u00e7oise Dolto wrote:
\n\u2018What is silent in the first generation, the second carries in the body\u2019…
\nWhat things, at a psycho-genealogical level, are carried in the body?<\/p>\n
On the right-hand side…
\nis the paternal inheritance…
\nOn the left side…
\nMaternal heritage…
\n– The Belly… The Mother…
\n– Back… Fathers…
\n– Divorced parents, or separated toes tips…
\n– Fear of sexuality, pelvis backwards…
\n– They didn’t love you, hardened and insensitive breasts…
\nIf I don’t use words to express my pain, will I express it with my body?
\nAnne Ancelin Sch\u00fctzenberger has studied this in depth:
\n– Duels not fought
\n– Unshed tears
\n– Family secrets
\n– Unconscious identity cards… and
\n– Invisible family loyalties…
\nThey wander over the sons and descendants…
\n\u2018What cannot be expressed in words is expressed in pain…
\n\u2018Or by accident\u2019, as in the case of a great-granddaughter who loses her virginity by accident at the age of seven (while pole-vaulting) and, on studying her tree, discovers that her great-grandmother was the fruit of a rape, conceived on the same date as the episode occurred…
\nHow can you see the secrets in a family tree?<\/p>\n
When the tree wants to reveal a secret to you, it creates a structure, something that repeats itself, that’s what it wants to bring to your attention…
\nFor example, a recurring date, a style of couple’s choice, accidents with similar ingredients…
\nThese secrets are kept out of shame, modesty, protecting children or protecting yourself from society…
\n\u266a Where do these secrets lie?
\nEach secret we have is in the stratum that belongs to it (the four 4 egos):
\n1. My secret crazy ideas can be identified at the level of my \u2018great-grandparents\u2019.
\n2. My secret emotions are in my \u2018grandparents\u2019.
\n3. My sexual-creative secrets are in my \u2018parents\u2019.
\n4. My material, territorial secrets are in my \u2018brothers\u2019.
\nWhen a secret is carried by a family member, they experience it as a foreign and annoying body, their body experiences it as a tumour or a bolus of food that needs to come out…
\nWe must never tell children secrets, because that’s child mistreatment!
\nWe also know the power of non-verbal communication. If someone in front of you withholds important information, they will sooner or later denounce themselves with an unconscious gesture…<\/p>\n
Freud said:<\/p>\n
He whose lips are silent, speaks with his fingertips…
\nHe betrays himself through every pore.\u2019
\nClaudine Vegh said:
\n\u2018It is better to know a truth, even if it is difficult, shameful or tragic, than to hide it, because what is kept silent is subordinated or guessed by others and this secret becomes a more serious trauma in the long term\u2019….
\nSecrets need to be uncovered if they are from the present, in the most appropriate way and at the most opportune moment, or healed through psychomagy if they are from the past…
\n*A useful tool is to draw the healed tree\u2019.
\nThe idea is to make a room in which we represent all the members, with drawings or photos stuck together in collage mode…
\nWe’ll give each of them their own objective, everything we give them we give ourselves, and then all the secrets will appear, transformed into blessings…
\nThe tree keeps secrets, while trying to reveal them…
\nIn every tree appears at some point a hero, the one who heals it and himself, the one who dares to build the family tree…
\nThere are no healthy trees because we live in a sick society…
\n\u2018Healing the tree consists in removing repetition, understanding it or repeating it in a positive form\u2019…<\/p>\n
\nSource : Alejandro Jodorowsky<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Alejandro Jodorowsky He says that a \u2018healthy tree\u2019 is one that produces sweet, nutritious fruit, even if its outward appearance is that of a \u2018twisted\u2019 tree… A \u2018majestic tree\u2019 that produces \u2018toxic\u2019 fruit is a sick tree… To heal is to betray the original intention of our family tree… To say no is to break […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":280,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-310","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.arbres-damours-et-dalchimie.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/310","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.arbres-damours-et-dalchimie.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.arbres-damours-et-dalchimie.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.arbres-damours-et-dalchimie.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.arbres-damours-et-dalchimie.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=310"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.arbres-damours-et-dalchimie.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/310\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":312,"href":"https:\/\/www.arbres-damours-et-dalchimie.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/310\/revisions\/312"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.arbres-damours-et-dalchimie.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/280"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.arbres-damours-et-dalchimie.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=310"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.arbres-damours-et-dalchimie.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=310"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.arbres-damours-et-dalchimie.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=310"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}